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([personal profile] aj Jun. 6th, 2025 04:13 pm)
When she was my age, she was dragging me around Chicagoland giving me cultural experiences on weekends. I occasionally do a reflection on how much cultured shit I did as a younger person and am deeply impressed with all the art and cultural experiences I had. For real, I went to so many theater productions and museums and exhibits!

Hell, we were members at pretty much every major museum in Chicago (bar MoCA) and I have seen so much art. Especially for someone who kinda hates art.

It's to the point where I've mostly run out of cultural experiences around Chicago? Like, yes, new events and exhibits exist, but if you hand me a list of "things to do in Chicagoland!!!", there are like, maybe five I've not done at least once?

And when I was a kid, I legitimately hated getting dragged around as much as I did. I wanted to stay home and watch tv/read a book. And I am 100% glad mom took me to all those events and educational things because I can now, as a grown adult, stay home and watch tv/read a book with the full smugness of someone who's Done That Shit At Least Once.

Though, I really do want to try the Lao restaurant that opened down the street from me. I have not actually tried Laotian food, so my goals for the summer are as follows:

1. Eat at the Lao place.
2. Jim Shoe sandwich.
3. Akutagawa at the Fullerton Restaurant.
4. Bone-in Porkchop sandwich at Jim's Original up on Western.
5. Beach.
6. MoCA? Maybe?
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([personal profile] aj Jun. 6th, 2025 12:16 pm)
I have four things that I want to accomplish this weekend.

1. Regular errands (laundry, buying cat food, house chores)
2. Buy herbs and potting soil (parsley, basil, mint)
3. Plant herbs and re-pot some of the sanseveria.
4. Pick up my book from the library!

Note: I cleared out the planters! I did not obtain plant matter, but I am now ready!

I kind of want to go to a farmer's market, but my local one isn't till next week, so. *shrug emoji* Still, I need to get the herbs in so that I can make some salads. I have chives (bless them) and green onions already, but alliums are hearty boys and I think we're finally in the warmer weather enough to get the more delicate ones in.

The sanseveria repotting is desperately needed both at home and at work. I'm not sure my work plants even have dirt left in their pots at this point. I feel vaguely bad at how poorly I treat them, but omfg they need to stop growing, dammit.

I'm also off to experience something I haven't done in years! Namely, pick up a book I put on hold through CPL. Now, I am Ms. Library Power User, but I rarely use my local branch. Partially because I remain angry at its stupid design, but also because I am a lazy person who's lazy and I usually just order stuff delivered to my desk. HOWEVER, due to the weird state of audiobooks (app-based purchasing is rage-inducing for me, personally) I've been trying to check out and request books on CD as much as I can. AND, in a weird twist of something, CPL owns one of the only books on CD of a history the rice of micro-brewing. I tried to ILL it, but it's so limitedly owned, it was easier just to put it on hold at the branch three blocks from my house. Anywho, excited to listen to a book on the history of how microbrewing came back into popularity! Because lbr, people been microbrewing beer since it was invented.

I'm also very proud of myself that I've returned everything that I ordered through ILL in the last couple months. All my cds, books, and dvds are checked in and off my record. The last one I have is a book for my book club that I have yet to start. Whomp, whomp. I have been awful at actually finishing book club books this year.

Note: I also really am craving Taiwanese beef noodle soup, but not sure I want to trek out to Schaumburg for the one I like. I probably should as the place I like to buy rice is out that way, but. UUUUGH, DRIVING.
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([personal profile] aj Jun. 4th, 2025 08:23 pm)
1. Steroid injections to the hand are beautiful things when they reduce chronic pain by 85% in under two days.

2. I feel like I have not read much this year. Only 9 full books so far. That said, I have reread one doorstop-length fanfic three times in the last two months, and that is just ONE. Overall I am fine with where I am.

3. Summer creeps ever closer. But, after a full day of overcast rainy weather, the clouds cleared tonight and the sunset was a stunner.

4. I had a pizza puff for the first time yesterday and I am both impressed and mildly glad I had not tried one before because I would have eaten nothing else between the ages of 12 and 17. I am working my way through the remaining iconic Chicago foods from Monica Eng’s book from last year, Made in Chicago. I think I only have a handful left and the ones that come to mind are taffy grapes. Which are green grapes dipped in vanilla frosting. I love Chicago.

5. My new summer hat is very cute.

Update: I have three iconic foods I'm willing to eat left over: Akutagawa, a bone-in porkchop sandwich, and a Jim Shoe. Iconic foods summer?
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([personal profile] ysobel Jun. 4th, 2025 04:20 pm)
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I got an email from the art dude announcing that he's temporarily opening registration to his courses.

(Still full price, just you usually can't sign up, just get on the waiting list. Which I had not explicitly done.)

I unsubscribed. Grumpily.

I can understand his logic -- entering a contest to get X indicates interest in X -- but this wasn't opt-in, and it should have been '
Had a productive day yesterday, with lots of small tasks & errands accomplished, culminating with actually making dinner! I seared the little round roast in a frying pan, then opened the preheated oven and grabbed the rack to lower it.

With my bare hand.

We ate dinner (it was yummy), then finished the evening at the nearest 24-hour urgent care, because while the damage wasn't too bad, burns hurt. Surprisingly, they did actually supply effective pain relief. Fortunately the 2nd-degree burn on the pad of the ring finger is small, and the burn on the webbing between finger & thumb is only 1st degree. Still, that was 2 seconds of stupid that's going to cost me 2 weeks of raging inconvenience.

So if I'm slower than usual replying to folks, that's why.

Any remaining typos brought to you by my amazing one-handed touch-typing.
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([personal profile] k2daisy Jun. 4th, 2025 08:10 am)
My mom's 79th birthday is Friday. Last year, my sister Kate and I posted daily memories and photos on Facebook about Mom every day between Mother's Day and her birthday. Then we did another round from then to Father's Day for Dad. I am so glad we did that; they loved reading them and remembering, and of course in hindsight I am so grateful I had the chance to tell my parents, in detail, their impact on me and my admiration and love for them. They both knew how much I loved them before they died.

June is going to be a rough month. Mom's birthday is the 6th, Father's Day is in a few weeks, and their anniversary is the 17th. This was always a month with lots of cards and gifts and celebrations. Now the events we are preparing for are: house closing on June 9, the estate probate ending sometime soon, and their memorial/water burial July 19-20. Quite the difference.

I start therapy today. The grief is pretty overwhelming, so I could use the help. This time it was through my PCP and insurance so it's not Janet. I had an assessment with the new therapist a few weeks ago, and I liked her. I think she will have some good tools for me to learn.

I did a long drive a couple of weeks ago -- took my parents' ashes to my sister in Connecticut, and attended my 35th college reunion. Those were the main purposes of my trip but I also had a nice reunion with my grade-school friends, and spent a few days with my sister and her family. Plus lots of driving by myself there and back. It was a good trip, I guess. Emotional. But it was a relief to hand off their ashes for a while. It didn't feel like it was all totally on my shoulders as much.

After the socializing portion of my trip was over, I was immediately felled by the flu/virus. Took it easy driving the 3 days home, and then collapsed at home for about a week. Today is the first day I almost feel normal again. I have barely left the house in days. Even took some naps! My husband and I were commenting that I haven't been that knocked down in years, probably since I had cancer and was undergoing the radiation treatments. I think my body realized my brain was not going to give us a break and just stop for a minute, so it forced the issue. I could not really do anything, and so that's what I did. It was a needed respite.

Anyway. I had been re-sharing the Mom posts on FB but honestly it was too hard. I know Kate saw them everyday in her memories too, so the people who needed to see them the most did. I keep forgetting Mom and Dad won't chime in anymore with their comments on my posts. I miss that a lot. I know Kate does too.

This is so fucking hard.
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([personal profile] aj May. 30th, 2025 12:11 pm)
Apparently, there's a hot dog festival not that far from my house this weekend. I'll see how the tummy is, but I'm interested in going. If just because I've been craving pierogi. Which, although the vendor list does not include Pierogi House or Pierogi World, there is a higher chance of those tents being there than there is of me walking over.

Hard reminder: I prefer my pierogi with BOTH apple sauce AND sour cream. Because I'm a gluttonous heathen, apparently. It's also how I prefer to sauce my latkes and other potato pancakes.

I also absolutely have to do a bunch of laundry this weekend. Wink's health is... well. She's lost a lot of weight and there are a bunch of rugs that need to get washed because she's been horking stuff up.

I've upped my brushing game and am transitioning her over to kitten food to see if I can fatten her up a bit. That said, I know that she's winding down. She's currently fine! But I can see that turning hard in the near future. Her 8th gotcha day is July 17 and she was ~7/8 when I got her. Girl is in great shape for a 15/16yo lady, but despite good bloodwork ($600 worth of it), it's clear there's a change in her coat and/or musculature.

I'm sad, but so grateful to this cat. She remains an absolute sweetheart and is one of the social and sweet cats (to humans) I've ever been around. She and Tea have been an absolute bulwark of mental health support for me over the last decade and I will miss her like crazy. But! She's still here and face-butting me for snacks, so I'm not going to borrow trouble. Just feed her lots of snacks that I inevitably have to wash rugs to clean up.
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([personal profile] aj May. 28th, 2025 02:46 pm)
So, I've been listening to some of the cd's I ordered from the library. Specifically CL's album from a few years ago and. Y'all. Maybe it's because I've been neck-deep in Teddy Sinclair's oeurve for the passed couple years, but. Y'all. This album feels VERY Cruel Youth. Which, no problems there. Love them. And I'm enjoying this!

TBF, Sinclair's written some songs that Kpop bands have produced, so it's interesting to clock comparisons here.
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([personal profile] aj May. 28th, 2025 10:08 am)
I have no idea how, but I ended up with food poisoning on Monday. I have been ~unwell~ for the last couple days and the only reason I'm in to work today is because I have zero PTO left. Honestly, I just want to crawl under a blanket and snuggle with the girls.

Legitimately, I woke up this morning with both cats curled up next to me (head for Tea, hip for Wink) so you KNOW I am not doing great.

Otherwise, I had a nice birthday weekend! Morton Arboretum was lovely and I do want to go back. The Children's Garden is absolutely wonderful and if anyone local has kids/friends with kids, it's a fantastic outing. I'm definitely going back for walking on my own. Mom's great (she got me a hat!) but not really much of a distance walker these days.
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([personal profile] lizvogel May. 27th, 2025 05:41 pm)
We get a lot of wildlife at the pond, including the occasional heron, sometimes a pair of mallards stopping by, and some kind of bug-fishing bird I haven't yet identified. Geese are rare.

Sunday I looked up to find a small flock of geese making their way from the woods to the water. Six adults, five half-grown goslings... and, yes, two smaller goslings, barely more than bundles of yellowey-gray fluff. They swam around the pond for a bit, then waddled out on the far side and nibbled their way over the berm and back woods-ward.

Today they were back, in the front lawn. (Just coming from over the road, I think; I'd wondered what the cars were slowing down for.) I got a much better look at the tiny goslings this time. They and their parents seem like an annex of the flock; with it, but a bit off to the side. Possibly the parents are just very protective of their much-smaller offspring, as who could blame them?

Just now I can see the four adults and five teenagers in the field across the road again. No sign of the others; I hope that means they've decided not to chance the road so much until their tiny balls of fluff can waddle a bit faster.

In related news, I've been enjoying watching the muskrats swim about and collect bits for what I assume is a nest. I was less pleased to discover that one of them has burrowed into the main patch of water iris, and eaten about two-thirds of the plants to the ground. We may have to have words about that, though overall I do quite like muskrats; they're rather like pond-otters.

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I enjoyed this one, although again, I feel that certain aspects would not withstand much scrutiny, so I will be trying not to look directly at them. The whole felt much greater to me than the sum of its parts.


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